Sex in teens

The topic which teenagers feel more interesting to discuss,the topic which elders avoid speaking before children,
the topic thats not discussed in schools, its sex....
Here u are going to find some feelings of teenagers and their parents regarding Sex at teens..
these are based on my encounters with many people(from india)
Basically i am also a teenager and i to have experienced a lot...
so starting with my view..

Coming straight to the point "sex at teens" ... As a teenager i grew in an atmosphere where even moving with a girl closely
is considered a crime.. i had many incidents where friends have commented about me when i just talked with girls..
as a boy i to had some craze towards girls..but i wasn't mad about girls..

there have been stages in me.. i mean i will categorize them according to age..
lets start from age of 8..
8-13:1st stage
13-16:2nd stage
16-19:3rd stage

1st STAGE
I consider the first stage to be a tender age.. but slowly ideas get moulded in this age..
Based on the atmosphere ,culture we live in.. and friends do play a iportant role in all three
stage..
In the middle of 1st stage.. i was getting more closer towards girls and i was intrested in their
company rather than boys.. there was only innocence in me no bad thoughts.. i felt them to be
my best friends ..a few of them..those days were good... but i had seen my friends changing ..
they were bit vulgur in their language.. and in the ending of the first stage they started using
internet.. i dont know how the got to it.. but they were getting diverted..

2nd STAGE
In the second stage.. i too started getting diverted .. i mean i was getting crazy of girls..
i wished to have a girl friend..i dont know the reason.. but those were the years i had some physical changes toooo..
i was matured between this stage.. My ideas were changing fast...I was knowing knew things..
the hot topic between us was always girls..... Slowly our views towards girls was changing..
And girls were getting more curvy day by day... At the ending of this stage we started talking about sex..
And i came to know that few have even attempted it.. i was shocked to know that my friends had sex with our classmates..
i dont know whether they were bluffing or they were telling truth..

3rd STAGE
Next is the real peak period of the teens... In this stage i was really tempted to do all lot of illegal things...
They way we see girls has totally changed... Our view on them was only like a object of lust.. And we used to see only the
curves in them.. i think they also wanted us to see them.. They started wearing tight dresses.. Those dresses were getting tighter n tighter day by
day.. I our feelings were also raising day by day..
Few of them approached girls and proposed .. In the name of love they had explores all the angles in girls..
Students started reading books like kamasutra n many more.. When i asked my friends .. why are u indulging in such type of activities
? they asked me "are u not a male?".. i don't know were they feeling proud of doing things..
i too am a teenager. .. i too have feelings, i also cant control my self.. its hard to resist by seeing these
curvy girls.. but i controlled my emotions and dint ever attempted to have sex..

few say it happened without our knowledge.. but
wantedly they meet in their houses to mate..n they explain this as unknowingly..
they have eye to eye contact and they have some other contact.. This all happens in a duration of 1/2 an hr..
and for a satisfaction of minutes.. they do it at a tender age..
If girls become pregnant it becomes a issue,... but education to students has helped them in negative way
they take the help of tablets and physical barriers to stop pregnancy..
recently many schools have cases where 9th, 10th class students had involved in sex..
May be it is not a matter in western countries .. but it does matter in india....

ok let me stop this lecture and lets see the views of few teenagers...
i am not specifying the names for privacy..

views of few teenagers:

teen1:i dont think that sex at teenage is bad.. it depends on the persons attitude and the culture they live..
all this culture is developed by man himself so if his culture would be like doing sex at teenage
the it would have been a usual thing.. but its different thats why they see it as crime..
teenagers can enjoy themselves.. no one can oppose them..

teen2:See if we don't get the things we crave for we think of that only.. i a teen i experienced it..
so if we complete it (sex) then i think our mind will be relaxed and we can concentrate on our studies so
i say the sex in teens is good.

teen3:i have some responsibilities, my parents have lot of hope on me.. i cant go in such a wrong route..
i have to first succeed in life and at a age of 25 get married and then i will think of it..bit this is not the time..
this is my suggestion to all..

teen4:i already have smooched 3 girls in school.. i think sex is bad but smooching isn't.. teens should not involve in sex but
just can have smooches and kisses because i know its hard to resist....

teen5:i strongly oppose such a practice because at that age they don't know what are they doing and what will it lead to in future they r going to face the consequences.They should be careful and be controlled in every instances..

teen6:As a teenager i am not able to decide whether this practice is good or bad.. But on my point of view i can't control my feelings so i feel like doing it.......


teen7:Don't ever think of sex in teens..If you are that tempted just stop looking those girls and things that tempt you.. Our culture doesn't encourage us to do such things...
i hope u will understand ....


so these are the views of some teenagers i met.. few feel its right and few dont...
Its left to u to decide the right thing.....